“Hi I have decided to have a small wedding and having family minus cousins and kids. The only cousins invited are in the wedding. Should I write a courtesy note with the STD’s or invitations or not at all?”
What could this “courtesy note” possibly say?
Hey, I know I just sent you an invitation to my wedding and everything, but it’s actually a small, intimate affair with no cousins…Okay, well there are some cousins, just not you. Sooo, you’re not actually invited. I just wanted you to know the date so you could celebrate in your own, private way. And, ya know, send gifts.